By Alice Rainey
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The podcast currently has 12 episodes available.
In this deeply personal episode, I confront the heavy reality of sending my kids back to school amidst the growing threat of gun violence.
The ever growing list of communities impacted by gun violence in schools demands a conversation. So in this episode we talk about how to manage those anxieties, prepare our children, and advocate for change.
It’s an honest conversation about fear, safety, and finding ways to move forward — even when it feels like the world is falling apart.
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Today's episode tackles the first summer child swap as a newly divorced mom, the emotions and planning around it, practical tips, and resources to help navigate this challenging time.
Links & Resources
Connect with me on Tiktok : @TheMomWithIssues
CoParenting Tips & Resources
Navigating Divorce with Children
Need a break from the heaviness? Come and listen to a call between two mom friends as we shoot the sh!t.
This conversation goes everywhere
And a bunch of stuff in between. So come be nosy for an hour and listen as two mom friends take a break, catch up and kill time.
Links
Find Mal
Connect with Alice @ Mom with Issues
Books
We Should All Be Millionaires: A Woman’s Guide to Earning More, Building Wealth, and Gaining Economic Power by Rachel Rodgers
Profit First: Transform Your Business from a Cash-Eating Monster to a Money-Making Machine by Mike Michalowicz
It's taken me a long time to tell this story. The path is not straight and the road is long. But for moms living with a partner in active addiction this loud messy story may seem familiar.
This episode I share the story of marriage and its impending end. But this episode comes with a special warning. Yes, trigger warning for abuse but also the sounds of violence. In addition to telling you my story I've tried to convey the feeling. The individual acts in each of stories my be different but the feelings of being in this type of marriage are very common. That is what I hope to share.
So if you have time, I invite you to sit with me for the hardest story I'll ever have to tell.
Links & Resources
Find me on Tiktok @TheMomWithIssues
Resources
Resources for People Experiencing Domestic Violence in the United States
National Resources
1. National Domestic Violence Hotline
- Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
- Website: https://www.thehotline.org/
- Text "START" to 88788
2. RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)
- Phone: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
- Website: [rainn.org]
3. Love Is Respect
- Phone: 1-866-331-9474
- Website:[loveisrespect.org]
- Text "LOVEIS" to 22522
Books
- Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" by Lundy Bancroft
- "The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma" by Bessel van der Kolk
Other Tools
- MyPlan App: A safety planning tool for individuals experiencing abuse ([myplanapp.org]
- StrongHearts Native Helpline: Specialized support for Native American communities
- Phone:1-844-762-8483
Resources for People Married to Alcoholics in the United States
National Resources
1. Al-Anon Family Groups
- Phone: 1-888-4AL-ANON (425-2666)
- Website: [al-anon.org]
2. Alcoholics Anonymous (for the alcoholic partner)
- Phone: 212-870-3400
- Website: [aa.org]
3. National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA)
- Website:[niaaa.nih.gov]
Books
- "Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself" by Melody Beattie
- "Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change" by Jeffrey Foote, Carrie Wilkens, and Nicole Kosanke
Other Tools
- SMART Recovery: A science-based program to help individuals manage addictive behaviors [smartrecovery.org]
- S-Anon International Family Groups: Support for those affected by another person's sexual behavior ([sanon.org]
Resources for People Experiencing Domestic Violence in the United Kingdom
National Resources
1. National Domestic Abuse Helpline (Refuge)
- Phone: 0808 2000 247
- Website: [nationaldahelpline.org.uk]
2. **Women's Aid**
- Website: [womensaid.org.uk]
3. Men's Advice Line (for male victims)
- Phone: 0808 801 0327
- Website: [mensadviceline.org.uk]
Other Tools
- SMART Recovery UK: Support groups for managing addictive behaviors [smartrecovery.org.uk]
- Family Lives: Support for families dealing with various issues, including addiction [familylives.org.uk]
Happy Mother's Day!
We're BACK! After a VERY long hiatus, Mom with Issues is back for Season 2. This season it's not just me. Join me and my friends as we discuss all of our issues. These incredible women will share their stories, pitfalls and triumphs. We'll cover everything from Domestic Violence, mental health, chronic illness, recovery and so much more.
On this episode, join me and my friend Lee as she tells her story of escaping domestic abuse. When her husband tried to take her life, Lee fought for herself and her son. She's 6 months free and here to tell the tale.
You can follow Lee, her journey and all of her amazing advocacy work over on Tiktok at @transcendingtrauma
You can hear more about Lee's Foster Care story on the Wards of the State Podcast Episode 17 "Lee Lee"
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This episode is dedicated to the weird moms.
To moms with hobbies of their own, to the moms that would rather donate money than time to the PTA.
So for the moms who love their kids, and would do anything in the world for them but know you don’t have to make them your ENTIRE world, let’s go. This episode is for you.
Links!!
Mal, The Don | @GamerGirlMafia on TikTok
Head of the GGM (Gamer Girl Mafia)
Do you game? Would you play more often if you had a safe fun group of women to do it with?
The discord server is now open folx 18+ who identify as women.
Follow the DON!! OG Weirdo Mal
https://beacons.ai/theratchethippie_ggm
Kima Nieves
Indigenous Momma providing Socio-cultural critiques; creative lewks + educational resources on Patreon
https://www.patreon.com/lilrednacho
Bianca De La Rosa | @KHiveQueenB on Twitter
Host of the K Hive Podcast
https://t.co/gklZAfgIGe?amp=1
A million thanks to my Tiktok mom community! Y’all are the best!! If your aren't included it's simply because I forgot your (at)! Please send me 💩 emoji on Tiktok if you want me to include you here!! 😂I promise I'll update these notes until I'm out of characters!
@Madamdontplay
@loadedcocoa
@thatmom85
@rollingwithit1126
@geneva83520
Articles and Resources
● Mom is not my only identity | https://theeverymom.com/mom-is-not-my-only-identity/
● When Your Name Becomes ‘Mom,’ Do Your Other Identities Matter? | https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/16/parenting/motherhood-identity-crisis.html
● Distractify Article| https://www.distractify.com/p/mom-lost-identity-viral-post
● Motherhood is an identity crisis. Here are 5 ways to embrace the new you being born | https://www.mother.ly/parenting/motherhood-is-an-identity-crisis-heres-5-ways-to-embrace-the-new-you/
● Losing your identity after having a baby (and how to get it back) | https://www.tommys.org/pregnancy-information/after-birth/loss-identity-after-having-baby
Credits
What Corporate People Sound Like | Tripp and Tyler
https://youtu.be/X8woa_wSrmA
Mom needs a Minute | @WisdomWrapped on TikTok
https://www.tiktok.com/@wisdomwrapped/video/6989312476923907334?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id7011716005710054917
Hey lovelies! No episode today. Life just got in the way.
I'll see you next week with an episode about moms without any IRL mom-friends.
Until then....
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Join the community on Discord: https://discord.gg/GKtPuRF4jk
LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/MomWithIssues
TikTok: @themomwithissues
**************TRIGGER WARNING FOR SUICIDE AND CHILD DEATH********************
● This episode includes the story of a moms who lost their battles with depression, and discussion of suicide statistics and symptoms.
● This is going to be a heavy episode. But even heavier, is the load of a mother, who feels all alone and can’t bear the thought of one more day.
● If you are in the US and in crisis right now, please reach out to the NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION LIFELINE @ 800-273-8255.
● Dial 988 from your mobile to reach the lifeline.
● Text TALK to 741741.
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Joint the community on Discord: https://discord.gg/GKtPuRF4jk
LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/MomWithIssues
TikTok: @themomwithissues
-------------Articles & Resources-----------
● News Article | Olivia Popham
o https://www.ketk.com/news/local-news/21-year-old-dead-one-hospitalized-after-head-on-crash-near-athens/
● FCC Designates 988 as 3-digit number for Suicide Prevention Hotline
o https://www.2020mom.org/blog/2020/7/26/988-designated-as-the-national-suicide-prevention-lifeline-fccgov
● Postpartum Support International (Non-Crisis Support)
o https://www.postpartum.net/
▪ PSI HelpLine: 1-800-944-4773 (#1 En Español or #2 English)
▪ Text “Help” to 800-944-4773 (EN)
● PostPartum Suicide Risks | Pregnancy and Postpartum Suicide Risk: The New Numbers
o https://www.psychiatrictimes.com/view/pregnancy-and-postpartum-suicide-risk-the-new-numbers
● Suicide statistics
o https://afsp.org/suicide-statistics/
Happy Halloween!
Put the kids to bed, grab some wine and the candy bowl, turn off the lights and settle in for a mini episode featuring 6 fun-sized creepy pastas.
Today’s episode is brought to you by Migraines. No, it’s not just a headache. No, I’m not “just dehydrated”. Yes, I took something for it. If those phrases sound familiar, then this is the episode for you.
A migraine is more than a headache. For me, it can be a debilitating pain. And this dusty broad doesn’t travel alone. She comes with aura, dizziness, slurred speech, and sensitivity to light and sound.
If you've ever experienced a migraine, this ones for you.
Joint the community on Discord: https://discord.gg/GKtPuRF4jk
LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/MomWithIssues
TikTok: @themomwithissues
6 Parenting Tips for When You Have a Migraine
Migraine Totally Sucks, Especially When You’re A Mom
Chronic Migraines Rule My Life
Migraine Effects on Speech
13 Natural Migraine Remedies for Some Sweet Relief
Tragus Piercing
Migraine Facts / Statistics
Mayo Clinic
Clinical trial – Botox in Adolescents
The podcast currently has 12 episodes available.