Potty training is the milestone that makes you question everything: your patience, your flooring choices, and why your kid suddenly has unlimited access to the toilet (and your bronzer 😭).

In this episode, we talk about how we’re approaching potty training in real life — the wins, the chaos, the “three-day method” pressure, and why we think the whole “readiness” conversation has gotten wildly overcomplicated. We get into why so many parents feel set up to fail, what helped us chill out, how long it actually takes, and why overnight potty training is a totally separate beast.

We cover:

• One nap vs two naps (and why “24-hour sleep” matters more than the schedule)

• The real first steps of potty training (without the perfectionism)

• Underwear too early = confusing (sometimes)

• Why “3 days” is often a lie (and what to expect instead)

• Accidents in public, beach pee, and normalizing the chaos

• Diaper industry, marketing, and why potty training age has changed

• Overnights + naps: when to keep the diaper and why it’s normal

If you’re in the thick of it, about to start, or spiraling because your kid didn’t follow the internet playbook — this one’s for you. No shame, no pressure… and probably a reminder to lock up your makeup.

XX,

Natasha & Taylor