For most people, dating is trial and error to figure out what you like and what works to refine your search for the perfect partner. If you say you want a partner with ambition, drive and loves to travel, that's fine, but what about when you boil it down to dollar and cents? A listener looks to AJ & McCall for advice on not being stuck up while also trying to find out what they want to know. Even with money being taboo, that is way less of a red flag then a boyfriend naming a kitten.