Today I Learned it’s more effective to attract. Being at work and watching how my boss was eyeing me and how another other women was flirting with me it was obvious that they were attracted to me by some level of degree. It got me thinking of something I heard Gary Vaynerchuk say. He said something similar like “It’s easier when it comes to you.” That got me thinking of past relationships and how the most fruitful ones were the ones were the the female initiated the first move. I’ve come to realize anytime I’ve tried to force a relationship I’ve ended up frustrated. Anytime I’ve tried to force anything I’ve always ended up dissapointed because I felt like my effort wasn’t matching the result. I think my energy in the past was applied incorrectly. Instead of expending all that energy presenting myself to different chicks I should of spent that energy improving upon myself. I’ve come to learn that everybody wants more than what they deliver to the table. Everybody wants a mate better looking than them, smarter than them, and even kinder than them. The frustration comes in finding more but not becoming more. That’s when it seems like nobody you want, wants you. That’s when I asked myself what’s the point in all this rejection. But nothing is fixed. Theirs an opportunity each day to become more than enough were I can attract what I want. It’s difficult but that’s the point. Digging deap and getting the best of myself out is going to actract best the world has to offer. I just believe that so much. I believe I have an opportunity in front of me to be an even more unique and interesting person. If I take this opportunity seriously, there a high chance that the reward will be just what I’m looking for.