Julian is an polyamorous, ethical slut who lives in Berlin. During a regular STI check he learns he has chlamydia and gonorrhea in his throat. On the podcast we discuss his surprise around oral transmission, his experience disclosing to multiple partners, and how to make protection more safe and comfortable for everyone. We also touch on navigating some of the stigmas and uncomfortable emotions that creep up around receiving an STI diagnosis. Despite the initial setback of changing plans and managing health, Julian agrees that #sexhappens!