Wow, 3 days of the topic on limerence which is a total focus on a love interest in hopes that they will turn toward them and finally love them. Limerence is dependent on the pain that comes form the rejection, inconsistencies and unfulfilled hopes. In other words you're recreating the early childhood abuses, in an adult world, as an adult. Find hashtag #limerence on insta or Facebook and find a wealth of info on this subject if you want to learn more.