Still not sure if you're a good good communicator? The first step to becoming a better communicator is knowing where you fall short. To continue with your communication inventory, here are more questions to ask yourself. Being able to put these skills into action brings you closer to connecting with those around you on a deeper level. Remember, we can be the harshest judge of ourselves or completely oblivious to what we may be doing. Obtaining someone else's unbiased observations of your communication skills can be powerful in moving forward in a positive direction. Take a listen and understand ultimately what makes you a good communicator.