What if one of the simplest things you can do with your baby — gentle touch — is also one of the most powerful for their brain, body, and your bond?

In this first episode of By Your Side, Katie is joined by child development expert Dan Berman to explore the science and soul behind infant massage. With nearly two decades of experience in Early Years and new parent support, Dan brings a rare blend of warmth, insight, and evidence-based wisdom to the conversation.

Dan is the President Emeritus of the U.S. chapter of the International Association of Infant Massage, a Certified Educator in Infant Massage, and the founder of BABY STEP — a free resource hub for new parents and educators. He’s also Director of Development at Our Kids Read, a non-profit helping young children discover the joy of reading.

Together, we unpack:

How infant massage can support better sleep, bonding, and brain development

Why touch is a language your baby already understands

How dads and non-birthing partners can use massage to connect from day one

Why positive touch is a pillar of early intervention and secure attachment

This isn’t about perfect routines or ticking boxes — it’s about slowing down, tuning in, and letting touch do what it’s always done: connect us.

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