What if the smartest thing we can do for our kids is to do a little less? We unpack how free play fuels deep learning, confidence, and resilience in the first five years—and why stepping back can be the most powerful support of all.

I share twin-tested stories that show how different play styles lead to rich growth, even without adult direction. We explore what free play looks like at each stage—from infants exploring textures and movement, to toddlers testing limits with sand and water, to preschoolers building worlds with rules, roles, and big ideas. Along the way, we connect the dots with the Circle of Security approach: kids venture further when they feel a secure base close by. That doesn’t mean leaving them to it; it means staying present, observing, and letting them lead.

You’ll walk away with simple, high-impact strategies: protect unstructured time, curate a few open-ended materials (yes, the humble cabbage box is magic), create a zone where mess equals learning, reduce background noise and screens, and acknowledge effort over outcomes. We also dig into dispositional learning—curiosity, perseverance, creativity, and independence—and how these lifelong strengths grow best during self-directed play. Expect practical tips, warm encouragement, and a reminder that you don’t need to micro-manage to raise capable, confident kids.

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Welcome to the Kebudel Parent Podcast—your no-nonsense, fun-filled guide to parenting, straight from the experts who really get kids (and parents too!).

Brought to you by experienced early childhood educators, we’re here to dish out practical advice, laugh at the messiness of parenting, and share our insider knowledge to help you thrive. From decoding tantrums to sparking your child’s love of learning, we cover it all with a healthy dose of humor and zero judgment.

Why listen? Because parenting doesn’t come with a manual, but it can come with expert-backed insights, a little sass, and a whole lot of support. Let’s navigate this wild ride together—one episode at a time.