0:45 Are you the bad vibe? Lack of fem accountability.
3:18 Sisterhood vs Community: Why it’s important to categorize who has access to you.
6:28 Where does it hurt? Unpacking Sisterhood hurt. “I’m afraid to like too many posts and to celebrate women I don’t know frequently… I’m afraid of being attractive to other women that they’ll want a friendship— because I’m scared of disappointment.”
9:52 “Filtration System” —- Coffee, Tea, Piss
14:09 “I feel safe to be handled in a human way for having human emotions.”
14:40 Are you offended by correction?
16:00 What Do You Need: Do you need protection from yourself or growth to outgrow yourself.
16:30: People Who Are Assigned To You: “Football vs Cheerleading”
17:47: You don’t need someone to gossip with you need therapy.
20:20 Allow Your Tribe To Be Transformative Into What You Need Not What You Want
21:43 Learning Yourself “People Pleasing Vs. Hospitality”
25:45 Introverted Misleading First Expressions— Trust The Access Given
28:34 Building Your Community After Falling Outs: What Do You Look For In A Female Friend?
31:45 Be Okay With Being Boring: “The Deescalating Friend”
38:10: You’re not a Woman’s Woman” If you’re only supporting the side of the woman you know. Stay Tuned For Part 2 & 3 Personal Experience In Confrontation + Feminine Mirrors 🍷