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Summary
A conversation about parenting in the early years, focusing on the challenges, the importance of trusting oneself, and building confidence as a mother.
In this episode of 'Finding Sanctuary,' host and psychologist Debbie Draybi discusses with resident psychologist Natalie Moujalli and counsellor Eddie Reaiche about various aspects of parenting. They delve into the complications arising from misinformation overload, especially from Google. Their main focus is on building self-confidence in mothers who often lose faith in their abilities due to external worries and fears. Throughout the discussion, they reinforce the importance of mothers trusting their instincts, over-relying on outsider advice or guidance. They explore the struggles of comparing one's children to others and the dangers of feeling failure when children do not reach arbitrary milestones. Eddie emphasizes how he spends time dispelling myths that cause fear, highlighting the harmful effects of women's perceived failure as a mother or wife during the perinatal period.
Takeaway 1: Trusting Your Instincts
Takeaway 2: Avoiding Information Overload
Takeaway 3: Every Child is Unique
Takeaway 4: Building Self-Confidence
Takeaway 5: The Power of Connection
Quotes
"Google and textbooks and magazines do not know you and do not know your child. So when they give you advice, generally it's the worst advice for the worst scenario."
"It feels safe. It can feel safe, but is it healthy? It's not healthy because we're now boxed ourselves into something that doesn't really reflect reality. It reflects our fears and our anxieties."
"That's a really important point that I want to talk about because it's one of these things that you start to feel like you may be a failure."
"Babies don't think, they feel."
"I've got a severe case of Google-itis!"
#FindingSanctuary #RaisingBabies #MentalHealth #Parenting #EarlyYears #Challenges #InstinctiveParenting #Empowerment #Confidence #Support #Googleitis
For more information on the Hills Sanctuary House visit our website https://hshl.org.au/
You and your mental health is important to us.
Please visit https://hshl.org.au/wp/help-resources/ for help and resources
Do subscribe to this podcast to get the latest episodes of Finding Sanctuary.
Follow us on
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Instagram - @hills_sanctuary_house
Blog - https://hshl.org.au/blog/
Summary
A conversation about parenting in the early years, focusing on the challenges, the importance of trusting oneself, and building confidence as a mother.
In this episode of 'Finding Sanctuary,' host and psychologist Debbie Draybi discusses with resident psychologist Natalie Moujalli and counsellor Eddie Reaiche about various aspects of parenting. They delve into the complications arising from misinformation overload, especially from Google. Their main focus is on building self-confidence in mothers who often lose faith in their abilities due to external worries and fears. Throughout the discussion, they reinforce the importance of mothers trusting their instincts, over-relying on outsider advice or guidance. They explore the struggles of comparing one's children to others and the dangers of feeling failure when children do not reach arbitrary milestones. Eddie emphasizes how he spends time dispelling myths that cause fear, highlighting the harmful effects of women's perceived failure as a mother or wife during the perinatal period.
Takeaway 1: Trusting Your Instincts
Takeaway 2: Avoiding Information Overload
Takeaway 3: Every Child is Unique
Takeaway 4: Building Self-Confidence
Takeaway 5: The Power of Connection
Quotes
"Google and textbooks and magazines do not know you and do not know your child. So when they give you advice, generally it's the worst advice for the worst scenario."
"It feels safe. It can feel safe, but is it healthy? It's not healthy because we're now boxed ourselves into something that doesn't really reflect reality. It reflects our fears and our anxieties."
"That's a really important point that I want to talk about because it's one of these things that you start to feel like you may be a failure."
"Babies don't think, they feel."
"I've got a severe case of Google-itis!"
#FindingSanctuary #RaisingBabies #MentalHealth #Parenting #EarlyYears #Challenges #InstinctiveParenting #Empowerment #Confidence #Support #Googleitis
For more information on the Hills Sanctuary House visit our website https://hshl.org.au/
You and your mental health is important to us.
Please visit https://hshl.org.au/wp/help-resources/ for help and resources
Do subscribe to this podcast to get the latest episodes of Finding Sanctuary.
Follow us on
Facebook - Christ the Redeemer Maronite Catholic Parish of The Hills
Instagram - @hills_sanctuary_house
Blog - https://hshl.org.au/blog/