In our work of over 20 years, the most difficult issue has always been that of other people s motives and intentions. It is especially difficult when the question is about someone close, like family or those who you have already judged to be good or positive! The major controversies of today often stem from the lack our ability to judge other people s motives. How do you know someone s motives or intentions. Hint: it starts with understanding your own motives! We ll show you how to understand your motives and other people s motives.