Before we can progress further on our journey of holistic listening. 

We have to contend with the notion of moving from the wrestling mat to the dance floor. Listening can ultimately resemble a wrestling contest or a gracious dance like the waltz. 

Initially, it might seem like there is a lot of motivating factors for not wanting to be caught in cycles of wrestling type listening. However, if we are honest with ourselves, sometimes there is an allure to the adrenalin of wrestling and the short-term satisfaction of winning.