** There is no timeline or flowchart for how to “move on”

** It’s definitely time to move on when there is no other choice

** You always have to think about cancer logistics (insurance, cancer treatment centers, etc)

** It’s common to wonder what you could or should do--you can feel stuck

** You get to choose to disclose or not--tell people if it’s comfortable and if it comes up

** Show people your cancer--put it out there to someone

** Leave while you are still having fun at the partys