In My Truth

Moving overseas and the weight of expectations with Ryan Ebert


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Our truth is more beautiful than the things we feel we need to hide.
Disclaimer and trigger warning: What we talk about on In My Truth tends to be very raw and can be triggering. Resources for support and help are included at the end of show notes - scroll down for more information.
Thank you for joining us in this episode of In My Truth, where serial entrepreneur and truth seeker Sarah Riegelhuth is excited to speak to her friend Ryan Ebert and dive into his current untruths.
Ryan Ebert is a Melbourne-based entrepreneur in the health care space. Ryan sold a business last year and is currently working on another startup. He’s also a sports fanatic and Melbourne coffee drinker!
At the moment, Ryan is grappling with expectations, from others and from himself, and something that not many people know: setting up for an overseas move. Ryan has been holding this secret of not being in Australia at the end of the year, and is working through the weight of the expectations around his next moves.
Ryan is also questioning whether he wants to stay in the health industry and how it shapes his identity, the ‘shoulds’ around his involvement in healthcare, and what he wants out of his ideal work role and how that aligns with his purpose.
Some other beliefs and stories uncovered in this episode include:
sharing our personal stories and untruths with stakeholders
fear of shaking up our identity capital and credibility
differentiating between opportunities we want and opportunities others want for us
wrangling with our truths
resistance to change
measures of success and levels of freedom
logic vs passion, joy and happiness
the weight of being outside of alignment
rhetoric around opening up and not opening up about our truth
feelings around people judging and questioning the ways that we live
compromising on lifestyle based on other people’s judgement
letting go, grieving and making space for who we are
limiting Instagram labels
Remember you’re not alone, and there is hope, even though it may not feel that way at times. Talk to someone, a friend or family member and let them support you. Reach out to a professional. Do whatever you need to do to start your journey back to feeling good.
Here are some resources I found on Google (because I am not a professional, these are not recommendations, just suggestions with love and empathy from me to you):
Lifeline (Australia): 13-11-14 is a confidential telephone crisis support service available 24/7 from a landline, payphone or mobile. Beyond Blue (Australia): 1-300-22-4636 OR chat online between 3pm & 12am 7 days a week No Shame On You (USA): 1-800-273-(TALK) 8255 OR text 741741 for a 24/7 crisis text line (a live, trained crisis counsellor receives the text and responds quickly) OR visit I’m Alive for 24/7 online crisis chat National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (USA): 1-800-273-8255 Crisis Services (Canada): 1-833-456-4566 OR text 45645 between 4pm and 12am daily
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