Intentional Marriage

Mr or Mrs Right With Michelle Hoffmann


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On this episode of Intentional Marriage, co-hosts and married couple – Justin and Cresta Burt – talk to Michelle Hoffmann who helps men and women between the ages of 35-85 to find their Mr or Mrs Right and not having to fear a dangerous or uneventful dating pool. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • I’m not a matchmaker, I don’t just put two people together, I actually help people find out who and why the best person would be for them. I help you to figure out who you are now (because you’ve changed throughout your life) and who is the right person to let into your life to set a strong foundation for any kind of a relationship that then becomes a fun, easy relationship to enjoy.
  • There are three easy steps to setting a solid foundation for a relationship. People tend to do step three first and hope that the other two things will be lined up. Step one is understanding where you are in the “lifeline of your relationship arc”. Once you’ve found someone who’s got a similar mindset, then it’s a matter of assessing core values – they don’t have to be the same, but they have to be complimentary. Step three is seeing if all of these values align and whether you’re truly compatible, not that you live close and have sport in common. 
  • Attraction, what you value and your priorities change. If you’re looking for someone who is going to be appropriate for you, find out who that is. Each of us is so unique that where our value system lies much deeper than the superficial: Is this someone I can trust, who will show up for me? Is this someone who has got the skills that I need to add into my life? Will we enjoy the philosophical conversations we have or the pillow talk?
  • All relationships go through the same cycle, whether they’re personal or professional; from chemistry to casual to committed. 

BEST MOMENTS

‘It’s a lot easier to find who you’re looking for when you know who you’re looking for.’
‘The quickest I’ve done this – once we’d cleared everything up and my client knew who she was looking for with complete clarity – is three days. And he is Mr Wright!’
‘You don’t always know when it’s wrong, but you will always know when it’s right.’
‘You have a better chance of success in a relationship if you’re connecting with someone who has a similar intersection in their life as to where you are now.’

ABOUT THE GUEST

Michelle Hoffmann is the International Best-Selling Author of the books Life Worth Living and New Management Blueprint. Clients call her a Relationship Coach.

Because life is better with good love in it, Michelle empowers people to attract, keep, and enjoy loving relationships in their life without losing themselves and being overwhelmed.

After the loss of her husband, people asked for her guidance when they saw how she successfully pulled her life together for herself and her children. She wrote "Life Worth Living" to share her experience and how she got through that traumatic period of her life and became a guide for others through their own unique situations. As her clients consistently experienced success, more and more were referred to help them discover how to create life the way they dreamed it could be. They were able, with Michelle's coaching, to be 'desireful' and attract, keep, and enjoy the right love in their lives. 

It's all about Relationships. Wherever you are in your life journey - single, partnered, married, divorced, or widowed, it's time to have the confidence to live and enjoy life as you dream it could be.

Now it's your turn.

Website: http://theartofrelationshipping.com/ 

ABOUT THE HOSTS

Justin and Cresta Burt are marriage coaches who specialise in helping couples regain their intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. They share how their Intentional Marriage principles can help couples find their "Happily Ever After."

Though they have a great sense of humour and enjoy making people laugh, Justin and Cresta take their work seriously. They know that marriages can be healed and relationships can be restored when both partners are intentional about making things better.

CONTACT METHOD

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Intentional MarriageBy Justin & Cresta Burt