Weight kuraykaam, nammukku ellavarkkum. Pakshe enthu weight? What weight should we lose? The weight of self doubt, the weight of comparison, mattullavar enthu chinthikkum enna chintha yude bhaaram, the weight of unrealistic expectations, nammude thanne manasil vasikkunna dushicha chinthakalude bhaaram, swayam enthokkoyo kuravukal undu, enikku ithilla, athilla enna anaavashya chinthakalude bhaaram, e weight okke nammukku kurachaalo? Kaaranam nammal orikkalum ellaperkkum nallathavilla. Swantham ammaye thalliyaalum randu paksham parayunna society aanu nammudethu. So you will never be good enough for everybody, but you will always be the best for someone who really appreciates you. Nammal arinjirikenda 4 kaaryangal, sherikkum paranjaal arinjaal pora, athu manasilaaki athu pole pravarthikkanam

A. Nerathe paranja pole, you cannot and will not please everyone. That is a fact of life

B. Nammude swantham avashyangalku priority kodukumbol chillappol nammal mattu chilare niraasha peduthukayo deshyam pidipikkukayo cheyyaam

C. How other people react to your choice ennullathu is not your responsibility

D. Your greatest responsibility is your responsibility to your yourself, your own well being and happiness.