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In this episode, I share how my thoughts on Valentine's Day have changed over the last twelve years of marriage. This holiday tends to bring up a lot of pressure for people, whether single, dating or married. Married people, especially men, can feel a lot of pressure to get this holiday "right."

The first way my thinking has changed is that I have realized that I can make plans for Valentine's Day. I don't have to put pressure on my husband  to do it all, and make my day perfect! I am more of a planner, so it makes sense that I may do more of it.

The second change in my thinking is realizing that having a good time should be a joint venture -- not the job of one person. Finally, for me,  I believe that "less is more" when it comes to Valentine's Day gifts. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Blog Post Mentioned: https://secondmarriage.xyz/take-charge-valentines-day/

Connection Ideas: https://secondmarriage.xyz/connection-ideas/

Book: https://amzn.to/3jPdxJf

Movies Mentioned: 

The Proposal

We Bought a Zoo

The Pursuit of Happyness

The Inevitable Defeat of Mister and Pete

Up in the Air