Thomas tells us how his father's high expectations led him to pursue a demanding career he neither wanted nor was highly skilled at. At a pivotal moment at university he made a calamitous choice that undid years of study and nearly wrecked his career.

PICTURES See Thomas in selfie mode, the text about his former classmate and the journal he uses in his new career to track data.

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