Dealing with the death of a loved one is tragic, causing one’s life to change drastically. But when a woman discovers that her now late husband has had an affair, engaged in porn, or has other sexual secrets, it's even more devastating. The image of having a good marriage, a healthy relationship is gone. The narrative is forever changed, especially if they discover more and more details of the infidelity or sexual behavior.
The trauma from this is huge, like getting hit by a car. It is further compounded by the fact that he isn’t there to be confronted or to help process what happened. You may be tempted to blame yourself for this occurring, but you shouldn't. You didn’t make them cheat. That is on them, they choose to do so. The majority of the time, this secret behavior started before the marriage.
In this video, Dr. Weiss discusses several myths that are commonly believed and provides guidance on how to make it through this situation.
The trauma and pain you’ve experienced are real, but you are not the only one who this has happened to. You are not alone. Whether through counseling or support groups, there is help available for you. You may not have been able to prevent it, but you can choose to start your path of healing, so take the next step today.
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Doug Weiss, Ph.D., is a nationally known author, speaker and licensed psychologist. He is the executive director of Heart to Heart Counseling Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado, and the author of several books including, Partner Betrayal Trauma ™.
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