I was at the salon one day when he came there with his wife for her to braid her hair before he left. He took my phone and used it to call his number, getting my number while his wife wasn't looking. When he left, I told his wife about the sneaky thing he did. The wife thanked me, but later left to confront him, and out of anger, she left the marriage. I was there one day when he came to tell me his wife had left him because of my gossip, so I should agree and be his girlfriend or he would kill me, as he was a fetish priest. Over fear, I accepted, and we dated for 9 years and got married. We have been married for 15 years now, but my husband has been with this lady for 7 years now. I have tried everything to separate them, but to no avail. Whenever I see the lady, out of frustration, I get angry and end up attacking her. The last time I did, my husband came home and gave me a dirty slap for doing that. He added that he is a womanizer and just like he left his first wife for me, he can do the same to me, so if I can't live with him, I should pack out and leave the marriage. As if that isn't enough, the lady has been going around telling her friends that my husband said he married me out of pity, not love, and that it's her he loves. When I heard and confronted him, he didn't deny it; neither did he say anything. Last time, coming from church, I saw my husband's car parked in front of a hotel, so I approached it, only to find him and the lady in a compromising position. I felt devastated, betrayed, and humiliated. Tears streamed down my face as I realized the extent of his infidelity. - Wife shares her ordeal