Dear Sam,

Every relationship I have ever had has ended in infidelity. From high and college boyfriends to my ex-husband. Recently I had been dating a guy for 2 years and once again I found out he was not only cheating but had gotten someone pregnant. I cried and asked him what would make him do this to us? His answer was that’s what men do. He said he loves me but men were not created to be with just one woman. He says there is always the main one which is me but there will always be another. Is this true? Or, is it me?