My twenties was the period that I grew the most, where I discovered my passions and myself. I found love, said goodbye to love, and found love again. My twenties was an adventure, filled with growth. But one of the hardest lessons I have learned comes from this decade in my life.

In this episode, I talk about how I struggled navigating the changes in my relationships and friendships as we transitioned from college into postgrad life. What was once a 15 min walk to hang out in college, became 3 weeks to a month in advance to see one another in our postgrad years. It took most of this decade to discover how I could reframe and shift my perspective in coming to terms with these changes.

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Why do we want to be in romantic relationships? Is it because we want to find our soulmate, our better half? Or maybe because we want to have our happy ending? But what if underneath it all, we don’t want to be alone with ourselves?

In this episode, I'll be sharing stories about love, of how I once understood it, experienced it, and redefined it.

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What if one of the smallest of moments in your life, actually becomes a defining moment of your life? 

In this episode, I'll be sharing with you the first time that I experienced the idea of "In this moment, you are the most important person to me." It's so powerful to think of how this one moment in my life, has meant and given so much to me.

As I continue to live this life, my memories of that moment may fade over time. But the feelings that I felt within my heart and within my soul, will withstand the passage of time. It's because those feelings will grow and will blossom into something new and beautiful.

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At some point in your life, you may have been asked, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Has that changed since the last time you were asked that? Are you doing what you said you would do? Or are you lost and unsure of what to do with your life?

In today’s episode, I’ll be sharing my journey so far and how you can discover your future career, or dare I say, your life’s calling.

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Some of the most powerful but also the most heartbreaking lessons I learned about life, comes from my childhood.  In this episode, I'll share with you a story that's been nearly 25 years in the making. You may want to grab a box of tissues for this one!

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After a year in a pandemic and going from one Zoom meeting to the next, has it been challenging to be fully present to others? Do you find yourself just going through the motions and passively experiencing life & your relationships with others?

Although the pandemic has forced us to be socially distant, that doesn’t mean that we have to be emotionally distant too.

In this episode, I’ll share with you an idea that has the potential to strengthen your connections and relationships with the people in your life.

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Welcome to My Offering to You, hosted by Arlan Mendiola! From being in community with others, I have learned that my strengths have been my vulnerability, reflections, and stories. In each episode, I want to share a story or a reflection about life with you. Some of these stories are about how to have a stronger and deeper relationship with yourself or others. Or even how to discover your future career or really, your life’s calling. I hope that these stories and reflections create a spark, provide clarity, or even new possibility for you.

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Logo Art by Ella Apuntar.