Are you playing pickleball with someone who’s really annoying on the court—and it’s starting to ruin the game for you? 😬
Today on Ask Aaron, we tackle a question from a listener named Han (could it be that Han? 🛸).

Han plays rec games with a guy named Chad—a solid player, but one who delivers constant commentary like:

• “Nice serve!” when the serve was… not nice

• Over-the-top celebrations after his mistakes

• Encouragement that somehow makes you feel like the problem

So how do you deal with an annoying pickleball partner without becoming the HR department of pickleball?

In this episode, I break down:
🏓 Why familiar pickleball partners get more annoying over time
🏓 When to say something (and how to do it without awkwardness)
🏓 The “performance framing” trick to quiet excessive commentary
🏓 A last-resort strategy I call controlled pettiness 😈
🏓 Why some players talk so much in the first place (hint: anxiety, not malice)

Plus: Star Wars references, Millennium Falcon pickleball hypotheticals, and a reminder that encouragement is only encouragement if the other person wants it.

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