The Hello - Breaking the Ice in the Lifestyle 🎙️
Join John and Susan for an honest conversation about one of the most crucial (yet often overlooked) aspects of the lifestyle: simply saying hello! Fresh from hosting a meet and greet in New Jersey, John and Sue break down why that first introduction matters so much—and why some people struggle with it more than others.
In This Episode:💬 The Power of "Hello": Why the simple act of introducing yourself is the foundation of every connection in the lifestyle—whether it leads to friendship, play, or just a great conversation. Remember: Hello doesn't mean you're entitled to anything; it's just a greeting!🎉 Meet and Greet Mastery: Behind-the-scenes insights from hosting their recent New Jersey event with Passions Playhouse. From the couples who instantly connected to those who stayed frozen in the corner, John and Susan share what they observed and how they helped facilitate introductions.😬 Breaking Through the Awkwardness: Understanding why saying hello can feel intimidating (especially for newbies!) and practical tips for pushing past that initial discomfort. Spoiler: Complimenting someone's shoes works wonders!🤝 Etiquette Matters: The right way to approach couples in the lifestyle, why it's important to greet the man first, and how to avoid coming across as aggressive—especially for single men.💭 No Expectations Rule: Why going into any lifestyle event with zero expectations is key to actually having a good time. Not every hello leads to play, and that's perfectly okay!
Sexy Storytime:Sue shares the story of their first hotwife party and how one gentleman—we'll call him "C"—did the hello just right. From that initial friendly conversation to their recent fifth meetup (featuring some creative coconut oil usage!), this is a testament to how genuine connection starts with simple respect and good manners.
Upcoming Events:📅 November 15 - Bucket and Suckin' Cowboy Birthday Bash at Wicked Fun Club📅 November 22 - Sadie Hawkins Party at Wicked Fun Club (ladies, YOU'RE in control!)📅 December 6 - Slumber Party hotel gathering with Passions Playhouse in Fishkill, NY📅 December 13 - Sexy Santa Secret Santa party at Wicked Fun Club📅 December 30-31 - IPG New Year's Eve celebration in Scranton, PA
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Playing Catchup - Our Most Recent Adventures 🔥
Join John and Susan as they catch up their listeners on their most recent adventures in the lifestyle! From club takeovers to hotel takeovers, these two are spilling ALL the tea on their experiences as they bounced from Connecticut to Pennsylvania and back again.
In This Episode:🎮 Sweatpants & Leggings Party at Wicked Fun Club: John and Susan hosted My Secret Seduction's cozy-yet-sexy party at the brand NEW Wicked Fun Club in Connecticut. Their fun, flirty games heated things up and led to an unforgettable five-way with another couple and a unicorn! Talk about a perfect night!🏨 Club4Play Hotel Takeover - Connecticut: After a two-year hiatus, J and S returned to Club4Play's hotel takeover and it did NOT disappoint! Hear about their reunion with a couple Sue had played with before (chemistry for the win!) plus Sue's wild ride on the sex swing that left everyone breathless.🎃 IPG's Halloween Hotel Takeover - Pennsylvania: This two-day extravaganza was EVERYTHING! From clothing-optional pool shenanigans to a sexy card game that escalated quickly, John and Susan had the time of their lives connecting with friends old and new. Halloween costume play never felt so good!
Upcoming Events & Parties:📅 November 8 - Mingle and Connect gathering in Mahwah, NJ📅 November 22 - Sadie Hawkins party at Wicked Fun Club📅 December 6 - Slumber Party hotel gathering in Fishkill, NY📅 December 13 - Secret Santa party at Wicked Fun Club
Get all the details on upcoming lifestyle gatherings and how YOU can join the fun by visiting our website - mysecretseduction.com
Got a story to share? We're all ears! Drop us a line at [email protected] - we're dying to hear your adventures!
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Hotel Takeover Takeaways: Essential Tips & First-Time Lifestyle Couple Experience
Join J and S as they share insider tips from their recent New Orleans hotel takeover experience! Whether you're a seasoned lifestyle enthusiast or curious newcomer, learn what to pack, how to navigate clothing-optional amenities, and handle those awkward moments when you need to contact the front desk while half-naked guests fill the hallways.
In This Episode:Essential packing list and preparation tips for lifestyle hotel takeoversNavigating clothing-optional pool parties and public spacesReal talk about hotel etiquette in adult-only environments
Plus: Hear about J and S's unforgettable Bronx house party where they helped guide a nervous new couple (the Cheesecakes) through their first lifestyle experience. This heartwarming story of connection, communication, and sensual exploration left everyone wanting more!
Upcoming Events & Parties: Catch J and S at these October events, including their exclusive Sweatpants and Leggings Party at Wicked Fun Club in Connecticut! Get all the details on upcoming lifestyle gatherings and how you can join the fun.
Ready to share your own adventures? Drop us a line at [email protected] - we're dying to hear your stories!
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New Orleans Heat & Sultry Revelations

J and S venture into the steamy heart of New Orleans, where jazz flows like honey and desire hangs thick in the humid air. Their destination? Colette - the Big Easy's most exclusive lifestyle sanctuary. But did the legendary club ignite the passion they were seeking, or did reality leave them wanting more?
This episode dives deep into the intoxicating dance between fantasy and truth. We all paint vivid pictures in our minds of how our most anticipated moments will unfold - but what happens when real life takes an unexpected turn? J and S share their Colette experience, peeling back the layers of expectation to reveal what actually transpired behind those mysterious doors.
Then S shares a breathtakingly intimate confession that will leave you spellbound - a tale of surrendering control and discovering ecstasy beyond her wildest dreams with multiple partners. It's a story about the power of letting go and allowing pleasure to take the lead.
Plus, get the inside scoop on the hottest parties and gatherings coming up - where fantasy meets reality and connections ignite.
Ready to share your own adventures? Drop us a line at [email protected] - we're dying to hear your stories.
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Warning: This episode contains explicit adult content and is intended for mature audiences only.

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You're on that particular website, and a specific picture on a certain profile catches your eye, leading you to think this person is someone you need to get to know better. So, you reach out through Messenger — but how would you present yourself? In this episode, S shares her five simple rules for how to talk to people you've never met before online to make a connection. (And it's more than a simple "hey" or a dick pic.) She also discusses the follow-up to that first contact, which many in the LS are terrible at. Plus, we share our sexy experience at a recent birthday party. Please share your experiences and thoughts with us by writing us at [email protected].

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A Swinger Podcast

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