How to love yourself is often in my search history. Self care days, clean girl aesthetic, becoming a girly girl, and how to glow up in 2024. These are all popular trends and terms that are surfacing the internet. And I am overwhelmed. I feel like I am constantly in a battle with myself to love myself and as soon as I think I am there, I am not. But to me, it's not that deep until I am at breaking point. Let's chat. Trauma dumping is real here.My cup is always empty whilst everyone else's is full. I have a problem with people pleasing. Self love is not easy. Feeling feminine isn't either. BUT YOU KNOW WHAT I'M IN MY 20s AND I'M FIGURING IT OUT. The fear of being perceived is a huge one for me as to why I can't love myself.