In this episode, I talk about being married. We are taught to go to college, get married, have kids, and buy a house. These goals should make us happy right? I did these steps, but I was not happy.

Marriage is not easy as it looks. As a young adult, I didn't know that my marriage was going to be a failure. I only knew of fairytales and happy endings. I had to learn the hard way by suffering and being in a toxic relationship. After more than a decade, I realized what a marriage should and should not be. My husband was not a man. He was my man child. I took care of him and my children. I was the man in the relationship. This relationship was draining. He didn't work so I had to make up for what he couldn't to keep my family stable. As a mother, I did everything in my power to make sure my children were safe, healthy, and fed. It got to a point where I gave up in this relationship. It was the only way to stay sane.