1) Sporadic openness about our porn habit keeps us from moving forward in recovery - consistent accountability is crucial to success. 2) Being busy with activities distracts us from guilt but also keeps us from being sober minded and self-aware - we must forgive ourselves and learn from our mistakes. 3) Restricting our search settings and filters can help, but the victory we need over our porn habit lies within ourselves - we need to develop plans to avoid relapse altogether.