Soon to be parents please be careful with the type of disciplinary actions you would want to carry on on your children. Teach them that they can be heard, they can be seen, they can fail and try again. That they can always be their selves and never be timid. Think about your kids well being, not buying stuff for them, but listening to them rant about their days and what they want in life . It goes a long way in building the child's existence.