Sometimes we read things in the Bible that sound weird, that make us uncomfy. Paul does in this passage where despite titles, submission, serving-- we need to look to Jesus first and then everything else flows out. There are things we have now put to death so that everything we do in following Jesus is for Him. It's ok to view things differently than our friends, but let's sit in the tension of figuring out what truly following Jesus looks like rather than quickly not talking about it.