I read you a published essay that I wrote 4 years ago about being codependent and devoid of self-esteem, called Beautiful Together. Just a disclaimer, a few of the things I talk about in this essay may be triggering for some, and I encourage you to click away and seek help. If you are struggling with an eating disorder, contact National Eating Disorders Association Helpline: 1-800-931-2237.

Yet another disclaimer: I am blessed to be in therapy and spiritual direction and I am pleased to report that I no longer struggle with anorexia or codependency, and my growth is something I am very proud of.