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Vad är det som gör att Tinderdejter känns så taffliga? Hur skiljer sig män och kvinnors erfarenheter åt på apparna? Och hur påverkas våra relationer när vi har ständig tillgång till ett bibliotek av singlar i telefonen? P3 Dystopia tar reda på vad som har gått snett med dagens dejtingkultur.

Producent och programledare: Viktor Hariz
Programledare: Fanny Hedenmo

Medverkande

• Anahid Nersessian - litteraturkritiker och professor i engelska vid UCLA

• Emily Witt - skribent på The New Yorker och författare till boken ”Future Sex”

• William Chopik - docent i psykologi vid Michigan State University

• Emma Engdahl - professor i sociologi vid Karlstad universitet

Artiklar

• Disintermediating your friends: How online dating in the United States displaces other ways of meeting - Michael J. Rosenfeld et. al. (PNAS, 2019)

• First Evidence That Online Dating Is Changing the Nature of Society (MIT Technology Review, 2017)

• Online Dating - Emily Witt (LRB, 2012)

• Dating Apps and Their Sociodemographic and Psychosocial Correlates: A Systematic Review - Ángel Castro et.al. (Int J Environ Res Public Health, 2020)

• The More We Tinder: Subjects, Selves and Society - Johanna Degen et. al. (Arena of Identity, 2022)

• A Hookup App for the Emotionally Mature - Emily Witt (The New Yorker, 2022)

• Online Dating: A Critical Analysis From the Perspective of Psychological Science - Eli J. Finkel et. al. (Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 2012)

• Tinder blue, mental flu? Exploring the associations between Tinder use and well-being - Yu-Chin Her et. al. (Information, Communication & Society, 2021)

• Online Dating and Problematic Use: A Systematic Review - Gabriel Bonilla-Zorita et. al. (International Journal of Mental Health and Addiction, 2021)

• Tinder and the Dawn of the “Dating Apocalypse” - NANCY JO SALES (Vanity Fair, 2015)

• Nätdejtingens dyra beroende: ”Bränt över 100 000 på Tinder” - Henning Eklund (SvD, 2022)

• Love Me Tinder - Emily Witt (GQ, 2014)

• How online dating has changed the way we fall in love - Donna Ferguson (The Guardian, 2022)

• ‘A Decade of Fruitless Searching’: The Toll of Dating App Burnout - Catherine Pearson (New York Times, 2022)

• Dating Is Broken. Going Retro Could Fix It. - Michal Leibowitz (New York Times, 2022)

• Tinder may not get you a date. It will get your data. - Rebecca Heilweil (VOX, 2020)

• The Tinder algorithm, explained - Kaitlyn Tiffany (VOX, 2019)

• The 4 ways ‘Black Mirror’s’ vision of online dating is actually better than Tinder - Lisa Bonos (Washington Post, 2018)

• The darkest side of online dating - Meredith Turits (BBC, 2021)

• Questioning Desire - Elaine Blair (NYROB, 2022)

• Love for Sale - Anahid Nersessian (NYROB, 2022)

• Love is a joint project - Kate Kirkpatrick (Aeon, 2020)

• Private Eyes - Sue Halpern (NYROB, 2023)

• Women on the Brink - Azadeh Moaveni (LRB, 2022)

• We Are Hopelessly Hooked - Jacob Weisberg (NYROB, 2016)

• The Marrying Kind - Diane Johnson (NYROB, 2010)

• At the Gay Bar - Andrew Durbin (LRB, 2022)

• Analysing Privacy Policies and Terms of Use to understand algorithmic recommendations: the case studies of Tinder and Spotify - Matt Bartlett et. al. (Journal of the Royal Society of New Zealand, 2021)

• Gender-specific preference in online dating - Xixian Su et. al. (EPJ Data Science, 2019)

• Computational courtship understanding the evolution of online dating through large-scale data analysis - Rachel Dinh (Journal of Computational Social Science, 2022)

• Modeling dating decisions in a mock swiping paradigm: An examination of participant and target characteristics - William Chopik et. al. (Journal of Research in Personality, 2021)

• A Rejection Mind-Set: Choice Overload in Online Dating - Tila M. Pronk et. al. (Social Psychological and Personality Science, 2019)

• Ghosting – så påverkas du när dejten går upp i rök (DN, 2023)

• Zombieing, benching, caspering – så blir vi dissade av Tinder-dejten (DN, 2023)

• Svenskarna och internet 2021 (Internetstiftelsen, 2021)

• Bored ghosts in the dating app assemblage: How dating app algorithms couple ghosting behaviors with a mood of boredom - Gregory Narr et. al. (The Communication Review, 2023) 

• How Tinder “Feedback Loop” Forces Men and Women into Extreme Strategies (MIT Technology Review, 2016)

• Key findings about online dating in the U.S. - EMILY A. VOGELS AND COLLEEN MCCLAIN (PEW, 2023)

• Presenting Your Best Self(ie): The Influence of Gender on Vertical Orientation of Selfies on Tinder - Jennifer R. Sedgewick et. al. (Front. Psychol., 21 April 2017)

• What your profile pic says about you in the Tinder age - Chaim Kuhnreich (The Conversation, 2017)

Klipp

• Nätdejtingboomen - Vetenskapens Värld (SVT, 2023)

• Land of the Giants - Dating Games (VOX, 2023)

Musik

• Colin Stetson - Mothers and Daughters

• Carter Burwell - Fade out The End

• Podington Bear - Dry Air

• Cristobal Tapia De Veer - Buon Giorno

• Jon Brion - Strange Bath

• Dario Marianelli - The Living Statues of Pemberley

• Jeff Beal - I Think I Smell Gas

• Kid Loco - Theme from The Graffiti Artist

• Podington Bear - Cm

• Marcus Bagala - Frets: Problem after Problem

• Martin D. Fowler - Delaying the Inevitable

• Marcus Bagala - Boxes: Autumnal Moping

• Marcus Bagala - Frets: Too Too

• Jon Brion - Coincidences

• Jon Brion - You Learn

• Michael Andrews - Peter And Sylvie

• Cliff Martinez - Not Leaving This Circus

• Jon Brion - Cubes

• Kim Neundorf - Lacero Espressivo

• Jon Brion - Punch Drunk Melody

• Cliff Martinez - I'm In The Pink

• Hans Zimmer - Afraid of Time

• Marcus Bagala - Untitledthingthing

• Marcus Bagala - Cascading Bells Too

• Marcus Bagala - Belle Ones

• Podington Bear - Vibe Drive

• Paul Leonard Morgan - Odd

• Marcus Bagala - Cascading Bells

• Cristobal Tapia De Veer - The Public

• Calexico - Untitled III - Remix by Two Lone Swordsmen

• Wojciech Golczewski - Setting Up

• Four Tet - Pause

• The Angosturas - Busy Bees