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Our words can be used for good, but a lot of times, I end up sticking my foot in my mouth because I didn't know when to be quiet. Here are 6 times you should be quiet
1. When everyone is talking over each other
We all feel like we are going to be the voice of reason that is going to add to the conversation or get everyone to shut up and be respectful.
- Your actions will do more than your words ever will.
- Remove yourself from the situation
2. When someone will not let you finish
- The interrupter - may not be all bad.
- Ask them a question about their life that you genially want to know the answer to (not passive-aggressive)
3. When someone is trying to express their feelings
- Listen
- We want to sympathize, but that never works. Just let them express their emotions.
4. When you are experiencing a beautiful Moment
- Take it in - Mental Image - The office Jim & Pam - Tattoo Tayler
- We conflate beautiful moments with Instagramable moments.
5. When you are searching for an answer
- Don’t reach for your device. Sit with the problem in your head.
- It’s good for you and good for your brain
- When it is difficult or easy, our reflex is to have it solved rather than try to solve it.
- Pride in the process with some answers.
6. When you are praying
- Leave a longer moment of silence before you say Amen.
- Conversation with God, not a Christmas list of things you want God to do.
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