In this episode of "Between Over and Next," hosts Holli and Robert interview Salvatore(Sal) A. Simeone, a leading matrimonial lawyer, about the process of divorce. Sal shares his journey and multiple pivots that led him to his career in family law. Deep-diving into the conversation, Sal imparts wisdom on several fronts. He emphasizes the importance of finding the right attorney who will be a good fit and provide guidance throughout the divorce process. Sal also offers advice for those considering divorce, highlighting the need for communication, resilience, and the understanding that life can thrive after divorce.

Sal's narrative serves as a cornerstone of the conversation, detailing his progression from a former athlete and postal worker to a respected family law attorney. His approach balances the intricacies of the legal divorce process with the human element, underscoring the importance of compassion and client-attorney synergy. The episode presents divorce not only as an end but also as a potential starting point for individuals to rediscover happiness and fulfillment. These insights are foundational for anyone contemplating or enduring the divorce process.

IN THIS EPISODE

00:00 Introduction to the podcast and the topic of divorce 03:17 Sal Simeone’s pivots leading up to his career 07:32 The pivotal moment when Sal made a connection with a mentor 09:26 Why Sal chose divorce law as his specialization 10:50 Sal's personal experience with divorce 11:38 Life after divorce and the next phase of Sal's life 12:07 Sal shares his experience of life after divorce and finding love again 13:04 Sal emphasizes the importance of choosing the right attorney for divorce cases 14:36 Sal advises meeting the attorney in person and ensuring their full attention during the consultation 15:16 Sal suggests looking for certified matrimonial attorneys with legal acumen and good people skills 18:04 Sal discusses the differences in divorce challenges between younger and older couples 19:31 Sal explains how he tailors his approach based on the life stage of the couple 22:30 Sal advises getting the best attorney that fits the individual's personality and needs 23:10 Picking the right attorney and understanding the divorce process 23:38 Importance of being an involved client and finding a partnership with your attorney 24:18 The impact of divorce on children and extended families 24:38 Not involving children in custody cases and being a shield for clients 25:32 The approach of fairness and reasonableness in divorce cases 26:12 Transitioning from aggressive to assertive approach in divorce cases 27:20 Helping individuals understand that life is not over after divorce 28:20 Emphasizing the importance of communication, connection, and optimism 29:23 Resiliency of individuals and the impact of divorce on children 31:15 The shift towards shared custody and the best interest of the children 31:47 The importance of minimizing damage and helping clients move forward 32:22 Challenges of second marriages and the need for compatibility 33:15 Final thoughts on divorce and finding the right attorney 35:18 Recognizing moments and opportunities in life 35:58 The next step should be a step up, not a step-down 36:37 Importance of communication and family thriving 37:31 Links to resources in show notes for finding an attorney 37:45 Sharing the podcast with friends and family 38:06 Relevant links in show notes 38:23 Closing remarks and gratitude for listening

Key Takeaways:

1. Choosing a divorce attorney should not only be about legal expertise but also about finding a personal fit and establishing a strong client-attorney partnership.
2. Younger generations are quicker to exit unsatisfactory marriages, while older couples tend to deliberate more due to longstanding investments in their relationships.
3. Life after divorce should be approached with an optimistic outlook, recognizing the potential for personal rebirth and happiness in future relationships.
4. The best interest of the family, especially children, should be the central focus during divorce proceedings, advocating for fair outcomes and mindful transitions.
5. Open, clear communication is essential throughout the divorce process to ensure expectations are realistic and clients are well-informed.

About Salvatore “Sal” Simeone, Esq. 

Sal Simeone is a seasoned matrimonial lawyer based in Northern New Jersey. With a personal journey marked by a series of significant life pivots, Sal has emerged as a leading figure in family law. His professional trajectory includes returning to higher education later in life and transitioning from a mailman to a successful attorney. Sal's expertise is particularly notable in the domain of divorce, where he blends legal acumen with a deeply empathetic approach, guiding his clients through one of life's most challenging pivots.

He is a partner at Weinberger Divorce & Family Law Group, LLC. Throughout his distinguished career, Sal has dedicated his practice to assisting clients in all their divorce and family matters, with a special focus on high-conflict divorce cases, custody battles, custodial parent relocation, domestic violence, alimony, child support, and contested asset and complex business valuations, as well as the various facets of equitable distribution. He also handles adoptions, and cases involving the Division of Child Protection and Permanency, and is often appointed as a Guardian Ad Litem and Parenting Coordinator by the New Jersey Courts.

Outside the courtroom, Sal has volunteered his time to the Morris County Battered Women Legal Advocacy Program, where he consulted with victims of domestic abuse on a pro bono basis. He has also volunteered his time to present educational programs on behalf of the Women’s Center at the County College of Morris, Randolph, New Jersey.