"The long goodbye of Alzheimer's disease is a constant process of mourning and adapting to the changes."

Hiiiii besties! Welcome back! Happpppppyyyy New Yearrr! I'm back in Georgia and I have a special treat for you. Over the next few weeks, I'll be introducing you to some of the incredible people in my life. And we're starting with none other than my amazing mom, MA DUKES!

I'm usually very private about my family, but they mean the world to me. It just didn't feel right to keep them from you. This particular chat was incredibly healing for me, and I hope it brings you joy too. (Trigger Warning: We touch on Eating Disorders from 31:07-32:26).

This week, my mom joins me to talk about her experience as a caregiver for Sittu, who has Alzheimer's disease. We dive into the challenges of caregiving, the importance of open communication in families, and the need for support and resources for caregivers. We also chat about how she copes with my absence and how thrilled she is that I'm not doing stand-up anymore (lol).

This episode is extra special to me, and I hope you all adore my mom as much as I do. If you or someone you know is struggling with Alzheimer's, don't hesitate to reach out to my mom and become besties. And for more support, check out the link below!

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 Timestamps

[00:00] Introduction to the podcast and special guest, MY MOMMMMMM

[1:22] Montana expresses gratitude for her mother's support

[4:11] Montana confronts Tamara about her habit of bringing up death

[10:26] Montana expresses her admiration for Tamara and the situation

[11:23] Introduction to caretaking

[14:33] Difficulty in separating caregiving from personal life.

[16:13] Learning to go along with the person with Alzheimer's.

[17:46] Finding support from medical professionals and influencers.

[19:34] The importance of having a small inner circle for support.

[20:57] Reflecting on the caregiver's role and the sacrifices made.

[22:08] The constant mourning and loss experienced as a caregiver.

[23:15] Missing the support and wisdom

[25:45] Not talking about things

[27:12] Healing through conversations

[29:03] Seeking perfection

[31:20] Coping skills and positive change

[35:18] Feeling judged by others in a small town

[39:00] Letting go of control and trusting in God's timing

[43:53] Need for changes in caregiving support across state lines

[43:53] Need for federal resources for elder care

[45:32] Importance of standing on God's promises

[47:09] Encouragement for Montana's speaking career

[48:00] Transitioning from comedy to speaking

[52:37] Advice for someone starting their Alzheimer's journey

[53:50] Importance of getting tested and on medication for Alzheimer's

[54:35] Experimental and approved treatments for a medical condition.

[55:20] The importance of having a good support group.[56:01] Expressing love and support for each other.