Matthew 19:1-12 - the third and final message from this text on marriage"Hard hearts may make divorce necessary to avoid greater harm, and hence make it permissible. But kingdom hearts are not hard, and they can find ways to bear with each other, to speak truth in love, to change - and often through times of great pain and distress - until the tender intimacy of mutual, covenant framed love finds a way for the two lives to remain one, beautifully and increasingly." (Dallas Willard)