As you go into the new year, set astronomical goals for yourself. Not “new years resolutions,” I’m talking about aspirations that will call for an extenuating process; a goal that will make people UNCOMFORTABLE when you tell them. This process will require patience and hard work for you. It will never come instantly. Along with this patience comes resilience. This long road to “success” will ultimately test you to see if you have the perseverance and the capacity to recover almost immediately when life hits you. You MUST be resilient to life’s unpredictable obstacles. Analyze the roadblocks and determine and alternate route around this detour that will propel you closer to your goal. Rise when life smacks you and NEVER dwell in discouragement. Remember the exact reason why you started on this journey, build upon that foundation, push back when life shoves you and work your ass off.