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Neuroscience of Change: Stop Sabotaging Your Future (S1E25)


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In this episode of My BrainWise Coach, hosts Cole Bastian and Phil Dixon continue their series on navigating life transitions. They emphasize the importance of understanding your current state, which includes recognizing mental models, identifying strengths, evaluating motivation, and assessing life phases. Phil recaps prior episodes on defining a future state and introduces exercises to help bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be. They discuss the significance of self-awareness, the impact of mental models, and practical tools like feedback and the motivation matrix to facilitate successful transitions. Both hosts share personal anecdotes to illustrate their points, making this a comprehensive guide for anyone looking to navigate change effectively.


00:00 Welcome to My BrainWise Coach

00:56 Recap of Previous Episodes

02:51 Understanding Your Current State

03:47 Exploring Skill Sets and Strengths

04:54 Behavioral Assessments and Tools

06:57 Life's Phases and Current Environment

09:22 Maximizers vs. Satisfiers

14:09 Mental Models and Worldviews

26:31 Alice's Curiosity and Belgian Traditions

27:44 Exploring Mental Models and Shadow Beliefs

29:25 Using AI to Identify Themes

33:46 The Motivation Matrix

40:26 Feedback as a Tool for Growth

43:41 BrainWise Moments and Reflections

BrainWise Tips and Key Takeaways


  1. Reflect on Mental Models: Regularly challenge and reflect on long-held beliefs to determine their relevance to your current goals.
  2. Embrace Feedback as a Gift: View feedback as an opportunity for growth, deciding how it might best serve you.
  3. Balance Work and Passion: Spend your time on tasks that fulfill and energize you, maximizing your personal and professional life balance.
  4. Self-Awareness is Key: Acknowledge your feelings and experiences without judgment, increasing self-awareness and emotional intelligence.
  5. Use Life Phases as a Compass: Recognize how different stages of life can reframe priorities and adjust your strategies accordingly.
  6. Value Diverse Perspectives: Broaden your understanding by considering differing viewpoints to enrich your insight into the self.
  7. Prioritize One Change at a Time: Avoid overwhelming yourself by focusing on one area of change until it becomes manageable.
  8. Cultivate Resilience Through Self-Reflection: Regularly reflect to strengthen emotional resilience and prepare for future challenges.
  9. Utilize AI Tools: Leverage technology to assist in recognizing patterns and themes in your personal growth journey.
  10. Create a Roadmap for Change: Develop a clear plan that bridges your current state to your desired future. :)


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