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Most men stay stuck because they keep negotiating with weakness, comfort, and excuses. You already know who you’re supposed to be, but you keep selling yourself out for a cheap, watered-down version of that man.
In this episode, I strip it all down and call it like it is. I talk about my own story in the fire department, how I was living out of alignment, and why choosing comfort almost destroyed me. This is about your soul, your standards, and the man staring back at you in the mirror.
If you’re living in the gray area, if you’re lying to yourself about your “dad bod,” your habits, or your leadership at home, this is the punch in the face you need.
🔥 What we hit in this episode:
Why compromise eats away at your soul
The lie men tell themselves about giving everything to their family first
The truth about “dad bods” and fake acceptance
Why humility is dangerous when it keeps you small
How to stop negotiating with weakness and step into the man God called you to be
If this triggered you, good. It means you needed to hear it.
👉 Subscribe for more real, raw, unfiltered conversations on becoming the man you know you’re meant to be.
By Paul M. BerensMost men stay stuck because they keep negotiating with weakness, comfort, and excuses. You already know who you’re supposed to be, but you keep selling yourself out for a cheap, watered-down version of that man.
In this episode, I strip it all down and call it like it is. I talk about my own story in the fire department, how I was living out of alignment, and why choosing comfort almost destroyed me. This is about your soul, your standards, and the man staring back at you in the mirror.
If you’re living in the gray area, if you’re lying to yourself about your “dad bod,” your habits, or your leadership at home, this is the punch in the face you need.
🔥 What we hit in this episode:
Why compromise eats away at your soul
The lie men tell themselves about giving everything to their family first
The truth about “dad bods” and fake acceptance
Why humility is dangerous when it keeps you small
How to stop negotiating with weakness and step into the man God called you to be
If this triggered you, good. It means you needed to hear it.
👉 Subscribe for more real, raw, unfiltered conversations on becoming the man you know you’re meant to be.