Stacy & Stacy continue the discussion of Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride in which "Lily" gives Julie advice. In this episode, they talk about that dangerous little word "always" (and its sister "never") and how overgeneralizations and accusations shut down communication. If your spouse says things like, "You always leave the dishes on the counter..." (etcetera), they have advice of their own about how to ask your spouse not to communicate that way for the sake of a good relationship.