"I promise I'll never ever do anything without your explicit consent."The speaker? A charming 29-year-old wordsmith. I was unemployed, and an idle mind is the devil's workshop. I was craving affection, love and sexual intimacy, and above all, I wanted to escape from my dreary life. It was a Saturday afternoon when we met. Online. Then, after a few witty exchanges: "How far down the rabbit hole would you like to go?""All the way with the RIGHT person," I wrote.