Marc explains the difference between hoping and wishing, and he shares ways to deal with discontentment in marriage. How can my husband and I connect with our granddaughters? Our daughter-in-law has alienated us from them. I was choked and beaten by my first wife and I am not in love with my second wife; how do I trust people? How do I stop thinking about my husband if I initiated a separation from him because we have a sexless marriage? My wife has physical issues, and we haven’t been intimate for a couple of years; what can I do?