Since my future son-in-law didn’t ask for my daughter’s hand in marriage, do I have a right to have the talk with him? I’m concerned my narcissistic sociopath ex has influenced her. You told me to back off from my emotional attachment to a woman whose husband has Alzheimer’s. Is it OK to keep in contact after she reached out to me? My sister’s boyfriend raped me at 17yo. When I told my church, they said it was my fault and revoked my membership. How do I find my way back to God when I am still angry?