My passive aggressive daughter-in-law is coming over tonight to talk; how can I steer the conversation to clear up our conflict? I take care of my father and am sober from meth for 2yrs. A cousin moved in and I found his drug paraphernalia; how do I ask him to leave? My new husband doesn’t know I know he is watching porn again; what is the best way to approach this conversation with him? Since I told my pregnant daughter’s boyfriend he needs to marry her, he has been cold to me. Should I address this with him?