My husband has a pattern of leaving me when he has a bipolar episode; is there a place in his mind he can go that gives him peace? My sister’s 11yo son with ADHD talks badly to her and all of us, but she doesn’t discipline him; how do I talk to her about it? I want no contact with my father-in-law who sexually abused his stepdaughter years ago and was never charged and has never gone to counseling; what can I do? How do I help my sister who is a domestic violence victim and has mental health issues? I’m now her guardian.