Should I continue to reach out to my Muslim sister or love her at a distance? What’s the best way to help my bipolar son who is married with kids and traumatizes them by yelling and breaking things? How do I find professional help for my 43yo son after he punched a hole in the wall and slit his wrists? My family members are upset I didn’t help with my mom or go to her funeral. How do I get over being estranged from them?