Dr. Jim discusses imperfect marriages and “Don’t tackle someone wearing the same jersey.”How do I help my 18yo grandson who is living with me? He got arrested last week, uses marijuana, and he’s staying with me because he has no place to go.I suffer from avoidance behaviors and the most challenging is avoiding going to the doctor.My last kid is leaving for college; what’s the right way to handle an empty nest?I’ve been financially abused by churches.