Am I making a mistake by telling my 38yo son I have to block him because he is verbally abusive toward me? Can you help me grieve the loss of my husband of 50yrs? I’m having a really hard time. How do I put people on hold while I take care of myself? I’ve been diagnosed with multiple myeloma but am always helping others. What should I do to help my 16yo granddaughter who has severe anxiety, twitches, and is declining? Do I go back to my husband of 44yrs? We’re separated because he took a hammer and smashed some things.