How do I pursue a relationship with three estranged adult daughters? I went through a divorce when they were in their early teens. My 14yo granddaughter is rebellious, gets into fights, and says she hears voices in her head. What can I do now that she lives with her mother and not me? How do I help my friend who has been estranged from her husband’s family because she refuses to call her 15yo step-granddaughter by her new male name?