I’m divorcing my alcoholic and verbally abusive husband. What do I tell our grandchildren as to why they can’t see him? My ex-wife has been destroying me to our children, and our adult sons have cut contact with me. What can I do? I am 5yrs clean from pornography, but I have traits of borderline and narcissism. What treatment do you recommend? How do I reconnect with a close relative after a disagreement over an heirloom doll?